Why cook beyond necessity to survive n show your loved ones you care n love them?

Title: Exploring the Joy of Cooking Beyond Survival

I know this might not be the ideal title or platform for my thoughts, but I’ve been reflecting on why I find so much joy in cooking. I have a roommate who’s always eager to taste my dishes, and I often let her know when I’ve saved some food for her to try. Sometimes, I even whip up dinner and invite her to sample what I’ve made.

Part of me feels like I do this to showcase my culinary skills or seek validation for my cooking. I’m curious if anyone else feels the same way—do you cook to impress or seek approval? And is it really a bad thing to enjoy cooking for those reasons?

For me, cooking isn’t just about nourishment; it’s a chance to be creative, experiment, and learn new techniques.

On a side note, I want to clarify that my relationship with my roommate is purely platonic. We’ve known each other for nearly two decades; she’s more like a sister to me.

TL;DR: Why do we cook? For survival, creativity, or maybe a little bit of both?


Comments

One response to “Why cook beyond necessity to survive n show your loved ones you care n love them?”

  1. It’s great that you enjoy cooking and find joy in sharing it with your roommate! Cooking can definitely be a form of expression and creativity—it’s much more than just a means to survive. Sharing your culinary creations can foster connection and community, and it’s completely natural to seek approval or show off your skills. Many people find joy in cooking for others; it’s a way to share love and care through food.

    Your enjoyment of the process—experimenting, learning, and being creative—is a big part of what makes cooking fulfilling for many. It’s not inherently bad to seek validation in your cooking; it’s human to want to be appreciated for what you create. The key is to balance seeking approval with enjoying the process itself. As long as cooking remains a source of joy for you, and you’re sharing it in a way that brings happiness to both you and your roommate, then keep it up! Embrace your passion and continue to explore new recipes and techniques—it’s a wonderful way to bond and express your love for one another!

Leave a Reply